Socializing is hard work. Harder than a one hour class of High Intensity Interval Training (e.g. HIIT) I must say. I have spent my early half of Saturday busy socializing and networking (with purpose) in a church social event. If it's not in the name of finding a nice boyfriend (or better, hubby-material), I did not think I will have the willing to go for this at all. But guess what, young men extinct in church. Those who are inside the church are usually taken. Few hours of socialising, playing games together (arghh!), and even performing on the stage (just kill me, really) and with zero result. Zero new boy friend. Bummer. 

So now on a Sunday, I totally has no mood to find other people at all. Sorry, peeps. You have to deal with Sunday without me because I'm busy recharging myself thanks to what you dragged me into yesterday. #timetobeselfish

So what are the best ways to recharge your introverted battery after socializing:

1. Don't make appointment with any human being

Just use any excuses under the sun because you have the right for your own personal time. Those people matters to you will understand if you stay the honest thing though. For those that can't really relate to this personality of ours, well, there are always excuses under the sun. 

2. Lounge

In a cafe. In your room. Wherever you are, just relax and enjoy your own company. I personally like to go into otaku mode when I relax by myself in front of my laptop in my own bedroom. Hehehe.

3. Shopping alone

Groceries, clothes, food. You can practically buy anything by yourself. The best thing about shopping alone is noone is there to nag you to go home early or to buy something. You have your own choice and you can check out one store at a time at your own leisure pace. It becomes even better when there are unexpected sales or bargains. Wheee~~~~